Deciding it’s time to talk about moving into a retirement residence is a big step. It seems to signify a loss of lifestyle, the end of freedom and all the harsh realities of aging. However, it doesn’t have to be that way. The right retirement home can offer independence and an engaged and enjoyable lifestyle with access to a wealth of amenities and programs.
But how do you find the right place? There are so many options these days, which means having an open and honest conversation about your family’s particular wants and needs.
Here are a few tips to get you started—and make “that conversation” as easy as possible!
Before broaching the subject, it’s a good idea to pre-plan for the kind of feedback you can expect. Take the time to research senior lifestyle options so you’re equipped to answer questions, highlight benefits and offer reassurance.
Make a list of pros and cons, as well as needs and wants. You’ll need to have information on:
Once you have your checklist, with supporting information from the retirement residences you’re looking at, use our Financial Calculator so that you can talk about budget together, too.
This is a big decision for everyone. Come to the conversation with patience, compassion and an open mind. Keep it light and give it time. Try to avoid the need for an immediate decision.
Point out that retirement homes are designed to maximize independence and customize support, removing dependence on family or other caregivers. Talk about the friendly community and mention clubs and activities of particular interest. Reassure about privacy, safety and security.
Change can be a good thing. Even simply having the conversation can bring with it a sense of relief and peace as the future becomes clearer.
Have questions? Simply contact us to book a tour or speak with a member of The Shores team today.
Come get a sense of our food, friendliness, and our wealth of activities. We’d love to show you around our gracious spaces and then treat you to lunch.
